Monday, July 23, 2012

A Stone's Throw From Heaven

 The perilous picnic began with the idea on Friday to eat our dinner down by the river.  I had never been before, but I convinced Dailey that it was a serene little place where we could sprawl on rocks in the setting sun and eat with the sounds of rushing water in our ears.  She agreed to the adventure, and we packed our basket and were off.

The plan, however, was thrown a little off kilter when we arrived at the river and saw a man with a gun.
What.
Crank the engine back on, pull on to the road, and get the heck out of there.   
Tout de suite. 

Next, we decided to maybe find a nice little (gun-free) field off the highway instead of the river.  After a few wrong turns and a really long dirt road that didn't have enough room to turn around on, we found the most beautiful field I have ever seen.


It was set against a radiant sunset, stretching as far left and right as we could see.  We hopped a fence, ran straight to the center of that sea of grass, stretched out a sheet, turned on some swing-era jazz.





 On the menu: mediterranean pressed picnic sandwiches, apples, and chocolate-dipped strawberries.



The pictures absolutely do not do the setting justice, and I had the sweetest friend imaginable with me. 











After all, what is more quintessentially summer than a picnic in the fading light?

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Beyond the Sea

Two weeks back from that big, blue ocean and already the week has melded itself into a collective memory of every summer trip taken there.  All of my stays seem to mingle together and one year becomes impossible to separate from another.  It's sweet, though, and comforting. 

This year was exactly as I pictured it would be, and I enjoyed it more than you'd think something so familiar could be enjoyed.  Some slight variations made the trip exciting, however, and perhaps some new traditions were established.  A few moments-

Saturday
Dad, being the avid walker that he is, inspired us all to walk several miles first thing in the morning. We were all happy for the company and cool morning air, and the coffee upon our return was all the more appreciated.    

Sunday
The first of many days spent entirely on the beachThis year had to hold the record for the clearest water; seaweed was nowhere to be found.  Clear water has an absurd amount of influence on my happiness level on the gulf.

Wednesday
To celebrate the fourth, we made our way to the very base of the pier to watch the fireworks (rather than watching the show from two miles away on our stretch of beach, as per usual).  We sat in the sand right underneath the dazzling lights- the closest I've ever watched such a brilliant show.  The sounds of each burst echoed off of the highrises behind us, every firework appeared twice as lustrous reflected in the ocean below.  

Friday
Pool games this evening were energetic and fun - who knew how exciting it is to find a toothpick floating to the surface of the water?  New and old friends, late night camaraderie, staying quiet so we aren't told to leave the pool after hours.

I unfortunately took only one picture the entire week (very typical, actually), and it really had nothing to do with the beach.  It was of a couple of racoons hanging on a tree outside our door.


And it was a fuzzy one at that.

Just have to take my word on the endless blue skies, white hot sand, and rolling ocean waves.  It was beautiful.


Friday, June 29, 2012

Notable Moments

Filtered photos of happenings lately-

Mini muffins for breakfast (with piles of strawberries)


Dress-like-a-hippy day.  (No?  Oh well.)


Baby or bear?


The hazy sunlight


Sassy Sammie


Big Sister


Laundry Day


Crepe Myrtle is the perfect welcome home.


Mom loves my lipstick.


Happy (almost) Birthday, Little Sister!


And one unfiltered glimpse of complete radiance-



Sunday Morning

On the way home from church, a quick stop for a walk on the railroad tracks-




















Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Beach Week: Prelim

The week that signals summer in my world is finally upon us- the annual Fourth of July Beach Week.
Hooray!

My family goes every year to the same complex at the same beach with the same people.  We eat the same food, spend the days the same way, and watch the same Fourth Fireworks show.  Every year.  And I love it.

So here's to spending this blasé Wednesday morning anticipating all of the things I love about beach week-

[Trail mix] Peanuts, raisins, m&ms.  Don't pick out all of the m&ms.  ...drives me crazy.

[Vegetable lunch at Ms Betty's] The best southern-cooked vegetables you've ever had.

[Rinsing off in the pool instead of the shower]  Quickest way to get rid of all that sand and sunscreen.  Whoops... I must have missed the sign that said to shower before entering the pool.

[The broken jacuzzi]  Seriously, it hasn't worked in six years.  Get on that.

[Barbeque on the Fourth]  Managing to shower and find a sundress, but not quite getting to the hair and makeup.  Also, so many side dishes. 

[After Sun Lotion]  We go through bottles of this stuff.  Bottles.  They should sponsor us.

[Pier Park]  Do a little shopping, eat dinner, see a movie, get ice cream.  Lather, rinse, repeat.

[Redneck Rivera]  The condo across the street from ours.  I have never seen so many confederate flag towels in my life.  Gracious - the war is over, people.

[Laying on the beach all. day. long.] Walking across the street after breakfast with an overstuffed beach bag and cooler in tow, setting up a fortress of canopies, tents, chairs, and blankets, eating lunch with sand in the sandwiches, waiting under the umbrellas for the afternoon thunderstorms to roll by, taking a few sun-soaked naps, floating for hours out past where the waves break so the raft doesn't tip, plodding back at the end of the day with salty hair, sandy skin, and pink on the bridges of our noses.

Three more days!





Monday, June 25, 2012

The Plan

Conversations of late have been revolving around the future. 

My little sister and I had a chat about where we'll be when we grow up.  We both agreed that we don't plan on living in our hometown after we graduate college.  There are so many places in the world - why would we want to experience only one of them? 

My boss shared insight with me the other day about her success in life- she is not afraid of change.  She said a lot of people her age stay in the same place for more than 30 years, but she has always been ready to take whatever path life opens up.  She embraces the opportunities she is presented with anticipation, not fear.

When spring semester was drawing to a close, I met a guy who was set to graduate that next week... who was only in his second year of school... and double-majoring in business and nuclear engineering.  Holy moly ambition.  He told me that his next step was to leave for New York City, where he would be working for a medical research team, but before he made it there, he was doing a month-long internship in Las Vegas. 

A few months ago, I had lunch with a friend, and for fun, we daydreamed out the next ten or so years of our lives.  I don't remember what his plan was (oops, bad friend), but mine has stuck with me.  Of course, I don't expect that my life will follow exactly this oddly specific design, but it captures the essence of what I'm aiming for.  Life has so much to offer.  If it takes a silly little agenda to remember that, then a silly little agenda I'll make.

The Plan

The next three years - I'll finish school, of course.  I love college with my whole heart, and my days there are filled to the brim.  I plan to study abroad for a semester, somewhere in Europe, perhaps.  And heeding some advice from my double major friend, I'll intern as much as possible. 

The one or two or three after that - New York City!  Or Chicago or DC or any big city with skyscrapers and museums and lots of take-out options (but I'm set on New York for right now).  I'll live in a big, airy studio apartment and find a job with my brand new marketing degree and community-and-civic-engagement minor.  I don't want to live there long term; I'd miss the stars, fields, and trees, and I don't really want to have kids there.  I think. 

And for about a year - a friend of a friend of a friend will have a cousin or something who lives in Italy or someplace and is a librarian.  Said cousin will become pregnant and her protective Italian husband will insist that she take a year off for her and the baby's health.  So I'll take over as the librarian at a sweet little village library, and teach English lessons in the afternoon.  I'll stay in the extra room at the home of a old couple who speak no English.  They'll make me coffee in the mornings and pasta at night.  I'll be absolutely broke from spending all of my money traveling around the continent.
     *Sidenote: I'm not sure where things will be relationship-wise by this point.  Maybe I'll have a husband... maybe I'll have nothing.  In that case, I'll have a romantic fling with a very tall and and very dark and very handsome Italian man.  Duh.

After that - maybe I'll settle down at this point.  With a husband and kids and such. I'd love a place full of history, and not too much snow.

Beyond that, it's all a little fuzzy.  But aren't dreams always so?




Sunday, June 24, 2012

Stopping By

One afternoon this week, on my way home after a particularly long day, I noticed how beautiful and bright the five o'clock sun was.  I noticed the green in the trees and the blue in the sky, and I decided to stop for just a little while to enjoy it.  I ended up in a peanut field, and the twenty minutes that I spent out there, all alone, soaking up the radiance of the setting sun, were the best spent that day.













Stop and the smell the roses.  Or peanuts.

Thursday, June 14, 2012

Enough to Know

Today, I spent a lot of time daydreaming about my favorite place in the world to go to as a little girl- Slovenia.

I was fortunate to grow up in a military family, where we were able to live all over the world and travel often.  For the first half of grade school, I lived in northern Italy and spent a lot of time visiting nearby countries. There is no way to tell how thankful I am for everything I experienced, learned, lived during that time.  I have seen that culture can be so beautiful and so different than it is in my backyard, and it has given me a penchant to discover more and more of it.

That being said, it could be potentially difficult to pick just one favorite place.  But, surprisingly, it's not (very surprising, considering I'm slightly indecisive - slightly).  I've always known that it's Slovenia, that lovely little country just east of Italy.  We visited just three times, and I was fairly young, so a lot of the details are fuzzy.  I couldn't tell you anything about the country except the bits that I saw myself, so that's what I'll do.  In no particular order, here are the memories about Slovenia that have etched themselves into my thoughts and remained after all this time-

I remember the fireplace at the house we stayed in over the Christmas holiday.  On the kitchen side, the fireplace was open into a small room covered in beautiful, decorative plates, where everything was rustic and inviting.  On the bedroom side, the back of the fireplace was built into a stone bench that would get toasty when the fire was lit- perfect for warming up wrapped in a blanket that was a little scratchy, but perfect anyway after being in the crisp winter air.

I remember Nelly and Junior - the two cows we befriended that lived in the field next to the apple orchard.  It must have been spring, this visit, because the apples were small and green and would crunch loudly when the cows ate them whole off of our flattened hands.  I remember learning that cows have seven stomachs (am I remembering that correctly?) and wiping the cows' apple drool on my faded blue jeans.  

I remember skit night during the summer trip that was girls only, plus little Jon Luca.  It was mothers against daughters, and the laughter that evening rose higher as the sun sunk lower.  Our grand production was Wolferella,  in which I played a very loud (and very obnoxious) Rumpelstiltskin- my performance was so... moving that a very old, disgruntled Slovenian man came over to shake his cane at me and mutter incoherent Slovenian things (I'm sure he was telling me what a compelling role I played).

I remember when we visited to ski and were met with the first winter there in years and years that didn't see one single flake of snow- so instead we hiked the vast mountains with a precocious, sandy-haired little local girl as our guide who learned her English from watching Cartoon Network.  After a particularly long stretch of trail, Dad surprised us all with a thermos of the richest, creamiest, most delicious hot chocolate I have ever had, and it warmed me all the way down to my toes.

I remember riding a brown horse with a white diamond between its eyes and a tail that swished back and forth to rid us of the horseflies.  I remember the clearest blue lake, with blinding sunlight glinting on the surface.  I remember the winding roads on the way there, hairpin turns at harrowing heights, with Mom beseeching Dad to please slow down.  I remember walking though the orchard alone one morning, smelling air that had never been so sweet.  I remember lush green, everywhere- trees, grass, mountains.  I remember a rope swing hung on high branches.  I remember stray cats, mangy and begging for scraps from the table and just a little love.  I remember a huge barn covered in moss and wooden beams that was a picture of fairy tales. 



I remember enough to know that I want to go back.




Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Singing in the Rain

Last Saturday involved yet another road trip- they seem to be the flavor du jour.  This one took me to beautiful Montgomery, where I met up with Dailey to make a day out of the somewhat inclement weather... and make it we did.



Fleeting dance party as we waited for a beak in the rain



There weren't any No Trespassing signs on the boat, so we're pretty sure it wasn't trespassing




Such a dear, sweet friend

The day had the most ideal ending, with an impromptu trip to Auburn for dinner, shopping, and a short stop at my older sister's apartment. 


And, of course, a visit to the building we love more than any other.

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Down by the Bay, part two

Sunday morning took us back downtown, where visited the Richards Daughters of the American Revolution House Museum, strolled around the Cathedral-Basilica of the Immaculate Conception, and had brunch at Spot of Tea.







After dropping SB off at her conference (the reason for our trek), I met up with Sarah, one of my closest friends from school, who lives in the area.  We spent the afternoon catching up at a coffee shop, talking and laughing and laughing some more.  Such a perfect end to such a lovely adventure.



 Soon to come- a rainy day in the Capitol city.

Monday, June 11, 2012

Down by the Bay, part one

Last weekend brought with it the opportunity to visit Alabama's oldest city, Mobile.  My little sister and I set out on the road, and had the most wonderful time enjoying the sunshine, experiencing the culture, and embracing the slower pace of life surrounding the gulf. 

Technically, we spent Saturday in the town of Fairhope, a charming little community founded in 1894 with a fair hope of success.  It was the perfect place to whittle away an afternoon.  We walked the streets downtown, exploring the stores, restaurants, and the museum at City Hall.











Evening fell, and we made our way to downtown Mobile, where we were treated to homemade peanut butter cups at an old soda shop and then saw a film at the Crescent Theater.  I had the good fortune of sitting next to a regular there- an old gentleman who indulged to me all the secrets of why this independently-owned theater was superior to all of those mega-movie places popular today.  He had me convinced.








The day ended with frantic trip to Waffle House (in all of the excitement, we had somehow skipped dinner and were positively famished by the time the movie got out) and then SB and I crashed in our beds, exhausted but happy with one beautiful day behind us and another one to come.